Make myself better?

What can this thing possibly mean... 'Make myself better'? One more thing that has been forced upon us.

The only thing that I can be, is myself! How can better or worse be defined? The problem is, from the start itself we are given the valuable advice of being a better person, and some points which I must follow for being better. I should think this, I shouldn't think that, and all that. That takes away what I am, from me. If we were left undisturbed since our birth, not a single thought to pollute our mind, and we were left to just learn from our own experiences, then we would have been the best persons, and not just the better. But I don't know how to do that, doesn't seem practical sometimes.

I person who doesn't care about others is not worse than the one who does, a person who cries when he sees somebody else in pain is no better than the one who might just laugh. But we have not been taught so. People have bent our minds in a direction where they wanted, whatever might be their purpose, but our minds are now at unrest. They have defined 'good things' and 'bad things' for us. And, alas, we have followed.

Read somewhere: "I don't change, I just become more of myself." That is the only criteria of being better, according to me. Some people see their aim as becoming a better person day by day. But I am quite disappointed to see that their criteria is as defined by others for us.

Either you are Optimistic, or you are not. 
Either you respect somebody, or you don't.
Ether you love somebody or you don't.
and so on. These are the things which your 'heart' tells you. Or in correct words, your 'intuition' tells you. You just 'know' what you want! These 'wants' make us 'us'.
But we have to force ourselves to be ourselves. What could be worse.

PS: One more thing that be done, according to me, is to be a bit more 'logical'. To not have contradicting beliefs. i.e. To believe in only the things which can be deduced logically. If you don't do it, you already contradict yourself.

THE NEW LOVE-u ! better and easy :)

The NEW LOVE says ‘when the other person loves it is adjustment; when you love the other person it is compromise’! These changes over the years have spread the common myth at large i.e. if love exists it exists in the above mentioned fashion only. People with high attitude and low IQ have the deepest anxiety; in spite of their minds functional; to plunge to fall from these great heights. The technology has not only revolutionized with our daily working, convenience, information sharing, connectivity and transportation's; but also built a life that is virtual; like finding relationships on FB and dating websites, hugs and kisses on bbm or messengers and secret profiles for multiple personalities of the same person! :P 


The change in relations over the ages have come from spending time together; some outing, movies etc to how much time together? How we reaching there? Is it the High Definition, Dolby sound, recliners or something even better? And on and on and on….. People with long messages and trails of emotions on the messengers or chats or whatever in the cocoon of computers and mobiles phones have tons to speak and tell and discuss ; but when they meet face-to-face ‘O’scar ‘M’ike ‘G’old what do I talk? Or let’s stand a bit apart or it looks too PDA (Public Display of Affection). Wow enlighten me were you the same person chatting, texting, talking to me some time back?


The new angle of the triangle called relationship in the Modern Age is, one is you, and one is the other person you in love with, the third angle are the tools given by the modern age connectivity. The new angle is from where you can see this triangle; that is exactly how far we are from love in the relationships. Welcome to the new world of genuine hypocrites; the most apt way of dealing with a situation is to keep it under wraps as far as possible; if required reveal it and if not possible relax, chillax, enjoy and move on! ;) :) :D